according to urbandictionary.com a booty call is:
1. noun: a person with whom one has sex with at random times outside of a relationship
2. verb: the act of calling said person
3. noun: the term used to refer to said phone call
but really, everyone has their own ideas as to what constitutes a booty call. in layman's terms, calling someone up for some ass. if you have someone in your life where all you have to say is "come over," darling you've got yourself a booty call. and if you beg to differ, don't kid yourself sweetheart. it's a purely physical action, with no real emotional or mental connection. and you both have to be on the same level with it; if one person thinks more of it than the other, that's a different story.
i asked several people what they thought a booty call was, and their responses were pretty much the same. "person 1 tells person 2 to come over. person 2 comes over, and they get it onnnn." so then i wondered, what if they didn't have sex? what if person 2 came over, and they just made out? or did everything but sex? is that still considered a booty call? even the urbandictionary definition claims it's only when sex occurs. i posed this question to the same people i had asked about the general definition earlier, and received mixed reviews. "booty call = mutual exchange of sexual favours" which includes pretty much everything, while other's claimed it was a completely different thing. seriously, what is the world's obsession with penetration? as raunchy as that may sound, it's ridiculously true. i was re-watching an episode of the L word today and a straight man asked 2 of the lesbians how they had sex if there was no penis involved? there was no way lesbians could have sex, even with a dildo. they responded angrily, and claimed he was an ignorant SOB. to them, sex was so much more than penetration, but obviously the straight man wouldn't know about that. sex is simply sexual activity, including sexual intercourse, but it is not purely intercourse itself. so why is that we all assume that sexual activity = intercourse? when asked what i thought a booty call was, i realized that i had absolutely no idea. even after receiving everyone else's ideas, i had yet to formulate my own opinion. if i were to claim that a booty call to me was purely intercourse, i'd be lying. each sexual act has a whole different meaning from one person to the next. for some people, foreplay is the only play. so to them, a booty call wouldn't have to involve a penis inside of a vajay. so i guess in my opinion, meeting up with someone for a purely physical connection, and engaging in any form of sexual activity constitutes a booty call.
and who does the calling? it seems like the most common form, heterosexually speaking, would be the guy calling the girl. as always, if the girl were to call the guy, "damn, that girl's a hoe" would probably be the general consensus. for some girls, they could see it as pussy power; owning your pussy. you get to decide who/what you share your business with. it's their way of fighting back at the chauvinistic pigs who claim that the men always get the final decision. if a girl's not letting you in there, unless you want to get arrested, you're not getting in there. her pussy has the final say. girls these days need to realize that they have the power, and need to not give into every man that makes them feel good. what any man can do for you, you can probably do better yourself. you know what you want, and what you need; no one else does. so who the hell is he to tell you what makes you happy?
pussy power all the way. do not submit, do not become a slave to his penis.
damn, i went off on a tangent. well it's 2:31, i should probably get some rest. conclusion? don't be a booty call; but if you need some? do it for yourself, not for him. call him when YOU want to, not when he wants you to. it sounds simple, but trust me, hormones make you do crazy things. do what's right for you; own your pussy.
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